"Valentine’s day is notoriously known for its candle-lit romance. And there is no problem with a little bit of sweet romance and wanting to do these things. However, Romanticism can set us up against unrealistic expectations of what love is and how it should be expressed - sexual desire being the supreme expression of love under the guise of the romantics. And I guess that is the pressure we feel. To hit the mark, hoping our subconscious romantic performativity will express deep desires for connection we crave."